I’m sure you’re wondering why I picked a title like this one. You might find it both shocking and ambiguous. If the title is what drove you to read this, then thank you for taking time to come to my page. I hope this serves you and others reading this.
The subject of homosexuality has weighed heavily on my heart the last month. With all the political, theological, and televised discussion about it, I’ve seen Christians give poor theology and unbelievers misrepresent Christians. The Phil Robertson controversy only brought about what had been bubbling underneath the surface; what everyone’s thoughts already were on the subject. So, let me be honest with you: I don’t think the church in America has a fully-Biblical understanding of homosexuality and I also think society has misrepresented Christians. I’m no expert by worldly standards; I don’t have a degree, I’m not a Pastor, and politics isn’t my forte. Any authority I claim to have comes from the word of God, and any cultural sources that I cite are in the authors/speakers own words. What I do have is a burden for the Church to read the Bible and use it on its own terms, and also for the unbeliever to know what Christians are about. So, please know that I wrote none of this out of a personal agenda for self-glory- my agenda is to get all of us thinking. Bear with me for a moment and ask yourself whether you agree with the title. What’s your interpretation of, “Homosexuals do not exist”?
You could see the title being for or against homosexuality; options also include confusing, or just plain crazy. Whatever the case, I ask that you read this series in its entirety. I ask for Christians to have open hearts and minds, and for those of you who are prepared to judge before the evidence is presented: chill. I’d like to take a minute and play with your perceptions of what you think these posts might be about. These four points are not meant to be straw-men stereotypes of different beliefs, but summaries of the beliefs of different people I’ve encountered over the years.
First, in regards to being for homosexuality, the title could imply that.
You could say that I’m here to bring down distinctions of sexuality; forget making distinctions, and love whoever you want. I’m just progressing what began with the Civil Rights movement and has now eclipsed in the next stage of humanity: the Gay rights movement. Blacks were discriminated, and gays today are discriminated against, too. Stop focusing on the colors (distinctions) of the rainbow (humanity) and start appreciating it for what it is. Homosexuals do not exist, but people do, and titles only divide us. We should all be united and pursue world peace. Michael Jackson and friends sang that, “we are the world.” Is that what I’m saying?
Second, you could see this post as against homosexuality.
The historical position of Christianity is that any kind of sexual activity apart from marriage is sin. Marriage is only between one man and one woman. Procreation and marital union align with God’s design for sexuality. However, some Christians aren’t satisfied with this position only being held in the realm of the local church- they also want society to embrace it. Some politicize it: The legalization of gay marriage in our country should make our blood boil, right? This is a Christian nation!
Maybe even thrown in some angry fundamentalism: Homosexuals do not exist, they’re just a bunch of reprobate sinners! It’s all about what Romans one says, that God let mankind seal their fate by choosing to sin. God gave them over to their sin, but not me! I’m a blood-bought believer, who is free from that lifestyle. My sin is already dealt with, but theirs, oh, just wait and see! We all know that God’s wrath is on them more than drunks or adulterers. They’re marked like Cain, and cursed by God. It’s too difficult to evangelize to them; after all, they’re already lost, right?
Third, you might find this title confusing.
Why would I say homosexuals don’t exist when everyone already believes they do? It seems like saying homosexuals don’t exist would deny what nature and nurture (to some) teach us. Isn’t it obvious that they don’t call themselves homosexuals (possibly a term for disrespect), but gay, lesbian, or even bi, and all the things the LBGT stand for? Isn’t this post therefore redundant, irrelevant, ill-informed, or just plain stupid? This leaves you with more questions than answers.
Fourth, I’m crazy (see point three).
Maybe I’ve convinced myself they don’t exist, and also that Santa Clause is real and the tooth fairy is real. Maybe I’m just promoting an ideology or a new theory that’s supposed to change the way we think. I could also be a religious nut who wants to bother people with a post that means absolutely nothing, and will not accomplish anything important, but just divide people even more. I have three words to say to that: wait and see.
Are you ready to go on this journey with me?
Today’s post is meant to encourage you to start challenging yourself about what you believe about sexuality. Start asking the hard questions. I don’t want any of who read this series of posts to leave seeing your convictions in the same way.
I would like to leave you with a few questions for today:
What is love? What does it mean to love?
Why is homosexuality such an important issue? Is it?
How should a Christian respond to homosexuality? Even though not every Christian thinks the same way, what should their basis be?
Is homosexuality a lifestyle, an attribute, or an identity?